So What Was I Trying to Create?
For this particular shoot, I had a few things I really wanted to work on:
**Sunset. A beautiful, flowy dress. Movement. And haze.**
I wanted to see how all of those elements could work together to create something soft, romantic, and a little bit dreamy. The dress was perfect for movement, so instead of having Olivia simply stand and pose, I wanted her to move—to let the fabric catch the breeze and become part of the photograph.
And then there was the light.
Sunset has always been one of my favorite times to photograph, but there is something about that last bit of golden light that can completely transform an image. I wanted to use the setting sun to create that beautiful glow around her while experimenting with haze to soften the image even more. I also wanted to show my customers that sunset pictures will not be edited in the airy, clean and bright look as my midday or morning sessions. You basically get a lot of different pictures, and as we lose the light, the pictures become darker and darker.
This wasn't really about getting a particular pose or checking off a list of must-have shots. It was about experimenting. What happens when the light, movement, fabric, and atmosphere all come together? How much can I push an image while still keeping it natural and beautiful?
A Little Advice About Beach Sessions
I will definitely write a separate blog post about this topic because there is a lot I could say, but it is worth mentioning here: **when you book a photography session at the beach, there is a very good chance it is going to be windy.**
Ladies, bring the bobby pins. Bring the hair clips. Bring the scrunchies. Bring whatever you need to help keep your hair under control when you need it.
Because I cannot promise you a calm beach.
In fact, during this particular session, Olivia and I almost called it quits. We were struggling to get a shot without her hair blowing directly across her face, and, as you might imagine, my daughter has absolutely no patience for this sort of thing. 😂
I just laughed.
Because after nearly 20 years of photographing her, I know something she was forgetting in that moment: **you have to be patient to get that gorgeous shot.**
The wind will take a break. I promise.
It may only be for a few seconds, but it will happen. And when it does, I'm ready.
And honestly? I love the wind.
There is something so beautiful and natural about the way it moves through someone's hair and catches a dress. A flowy dress blowing in the breeze, hair moving around the face, fabric lifting just slightly—those little imperfections are often what make a photograph feel alive.
I don't want every strand of hair perfectly in place. I don't want every dress perfectly still.
I want movement.
I want emotion.
I want that little bit of unpredictability that makes a beach portrait feel like it actually happened rather than being perfectly staged.
So when you arrive for your beach session and the wind is blowing, don't panic. We will work with it. Sometimes we will fight it, sometimes we will wait for it, and sometimes we will embrace it completely.
Because after nearly 20 years of photographing her, I know something she was forgetting in that moment: **you have to be patient to get that gorgeous shot.**
The wind will take a break. I promise.
It may only be for a few seconds, but it will happen. And when it does, I'm ready.
And honestly? I love the wind.
There is something so beautiful and natural about the way it moves through someone's hair and catches a dress. A flowy dress blowing in the breeze, hair moving around the face, fabric lifting just slightly—those little imperfections are often what make a photograph feel alive.
I don't want every strand of hair perfectly in place. I don't want every dress perfectly still.
I want movement.
I want emotion.
I want that little bit of unpredictability that makes a beach portrait feel like it actually happened rather than being perfectly staged.
So when you arrive for your beach session and the wind is blowing, don't panic. We will work with it. Sometimes we will fight it, sometimes we will wait for it, and sometimes we will embrace it completely.
Because some of my favorite images happen when we stop trying to control everything and simply let the beach do what the beach does.
And having a willing muse who has been helping me test my ideas for nearly 20 years is pretty wonderful.
So yes, this blog post is about a photography session, but it is also about something much more personal. It is about watching your children grow, finding ways to preserve those different seasons of their lives, and realizing that the little girl who once danced to Barney in the middle of the street is still there somewhere.
She just looks a little different now.
And thankfully, she still lets Mom bring out the camera.